Parents adorn some dreams for their child in their eyes. Meanwhile, their expectations are higher from their children. They believe if they were not accomplished their ambitions in past so they will certainly want their future generation to accomplish the goal.
However, they forget their child’s ambition. Sometimes they lose their consciousness if they don’t find the desired result and start passing harsh comments towards their kids. Punishment is not the solution to everything. Hence, this may inclined to self-killing of fragile minds and bodies. Consequently, many incidents have been reported for many years.
Recently, about a month ago, 0n July 6th, 2017 a 16 years old student named Hassan allegedly committed suicide by consuming poison after getting low grades in his FBISE (part 1) exams. The only reason behind this despicable crime disclosed, that he committed suicide on account of family restrictions and huge fear of facing them after acquiring poor result. Subsequently, he decided to end his life.
He’s not the only child who ends his life. We have numerous Hassan and such examples where children had put an end to their lives. We have witnessed several times that whenever results are announced by the higher educational authorities, some young delicate flower end his/her life by fear of getting thrashed or rebuked by parents. As I believe no one ever wants to die but sometimes fear may force you to take any drastic step which will destroy your life in a second. But it’s not the way to get solace from your calamities and fear.
Despite the fact, youngsters only need kindness or compassion from their loved ones, who support them, who encourage them, who always appreciate them and stand behind. But when their loved ones torture them if they get fail in their exams then they get afraid of them. They will start hiding things from them, so in the end they will become psychologically weak and end their precious lives. Children need your valuable time but sadly nowadays parents are busy in solving their own issues. They urge their child that he has to get highest marks in his exams at any cost but they are not known about the child’s IQ level and strength.
Parents must treat their kids affectionately. So they never feel scared while sharing secrets. Otherwise they will lose their children for the whole life.
Being a daughter, I am proudly saying that my parents never forced me to fulfill their desires. Hence, they always appreciated for my bad or good grades because they know that their appreciation motivates me to fulfill my ambition.
Remember your child only needs affection towards him or her and once you encourage, automatically he urges himself towards your goals.